Thursday, November 14, 2019

Greens and Produce

Produce of the earth sold at prices affordable to its simple folks

Greens nourished well by an abundant water and the bright sun

At the southern back end of an island now made accessible by concrete highways on both the east and west sides, 5 hours via Calapan or 4 hours from Abra de Ilog


San Jose in Occidental Mindoro is slowly moving up from a 1st class municipality to cityhood

Hopefully it still remains as it is for a longer time; quaint, slow-paced, laid-back

Where the indigenous minorities are free to roam around the forest and the mountains

And the farmers still have the productive rice farmlands to till not yet converted to commercial lots and subdivisions

For now










Monday, November 04, 2019

Cellist and Trumpheter

Cinema Paradiso is one of my favourite films. It is a growing up story of an Italian in Sicily who recalls his love for film, friendship and lost love as a boy scored with a melodic music.


Cellist Yo-yo Ma and trumpheter Chris Botti collaborated in  interpretating the moving piece. The live version of the two artists hits you down to the core if you quietly listen.

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When we allowed the child in us to prevail in our younger days, we certainly would have had a lot  of unique Cinema Paradiso moments.

Saturday, November 02, 2019

YouTube Musical Marathon Viewing

YouTube Marathon viewing seen in High Definition

Is saying “sorry” truly difficult to say? Anyone can say it but expressing it with sincerity is hard.

Which version of “Sorry seems the hardest word” was interpreted with sincerity dramatizing the pain of rejection?
It's sad, so sad
It's a sad, sad situation
And it's getting more and more absurd
It's sad, so sad
Why can't we talk it over
Oh it seems to me
That sorry seems to be the hardest word

The original by Elton John https://youtu.be/c3nScN89Klo
Diana Kralls’ https://youtu.be/_hSn4-F4zjE
Group “Blue” with Elton John https://youtu.be/JCuYcCH3Yos
Clay Aiken https://youtu.be/3_hyY0CDD74
Joe Cocker https://youtu.be/axcXYkiO82Q
Joe McElderry https://youtu.be/j93WvstotJ4

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 Simple straight forward messages in a song interpreted by Joe McElderry, 2009 winner of Britain's X Factor.
I felt the sadness hearing him interpret the songs sorry seems to be the hardest word and she's out of my life.
I felt how it was when you reached your peak, you'd wish that you don't let the sun go down on me.
Joe McElderry then age18 caught the imagination of the English viewers. He matured, evolved as a singer and as an artist.

But I wished Joe did not age and remained angelic and pure.
Watch his performances.
https://youtu.be/SI-i_1FtebQ
https://youtu.be/4FpqdqyyNsw
https://youtu.be/WKozpAeHu9w

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Which cover of Adele's "Rolling in the Deep" relays the message of  "sana tayo na pero may pagninilo (pagtataksil) ka!"?
We almost had it all! but . . .

https://youtu.be/3k5acPIi0f8 Aretha Franklin
https://youtu.be/5NH6aM9YaGI Chinese Opera version
https://youtu.be/wIJC5N4MEZk KZ Tandingan
https://youtu.be/x2Oh7STrSIk Leo Moracchioli (metal cover)
https://youtu.be/_sXrTpOVnak Linkin Park
https://youtu.be/WZ7xADesLNg Vance Joy (acoustic)
https://youtu.be/tt2NIDtp-Ls Simply Three (cello/violin/bass)
https://youtu.be/LvebwuW8xHI Jack Vidgen
https://youtu.be/6R6iqO63ntM
https://youtu.be/nYqbOW4ka8k Han Bryul (K Pop Australian)

And the original live from Adele
https://youtu.be/Mi2cURoOAYY at the Royal Albert Hall
Enjoy

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Poetry in Lyrics. Melody in Tunes. Expression in Interpretation. Reinterpreted in a Cover Song

I am awed by the vocal range, control, versatility, phrasing, interpretation and choice of songs with memorable musicality and well written and crafted poetry of a young Australian-Korean (ex-KPop) singer Jang Han-Byul.

I discovered him on YouTube. From the over 50 videos, I am sharing 5 of my choices demonstrating his versatility and faithfulness to the theme.

Through voice and projection, he dramatizes the pain of separation in covering Adele's "Someone like you" sometimes it lasts in love and sometimes it hurts instead. For me it's not over . . . " https://youtu.be/dr8iyogSxYY

Pain of rejection in Bruno Mar's "Grenade" where "I would die for you but you wouldn't do the same."  https://youtu.be/jIeaneOc-jQ

A gloomy "Story of my life"  by One Direction. "My heart is unbroken but still untamed."  https://youtu.be/CdknvJM-Z6c

Struggling with "Demons" inside interpreting Imagine Dragons "When you feel the heat, just look into my eyes. It's where the demons hide. Don't get too close, it's dark inside" https://youtu.be/PgA136Vu-YI

And the hopeful and my favorite "Counting Stars" of One Republic where he shows singing prowess interpreting the melody of these lines "Old but not that old, young but not that bold," "I feel something so right by doing the wrong things, I feel something so wrong by doing the right things." "Everything that kills me makes me feel alive." Hope comes in the line "no more counting dollars; we'll be counting stars." https://youtu.be/-o5x0SiyegQ

Jan Han-Byul is a talented young artist who conveys his music through his voice though covers but expressed well, very well. He sings in English, French, Korean, Japanese. Currently, he is wowing audiences in Malaysia and India.

Listen to his interpretation to my initial selection of familiar songs. (Studio recordings best appreciated on Smart TV with a sound bar)

To complete my playlist:
Treasure by Bruno Mars https://youtu.be/zmsKikzG2Ns
Just the way you are by Bruno Mars https://youtu.be/3-HR2cLVFjc
Versace on the wall by Bruno Mars https://youtu.be/n-v9H-Tr-DE
When I was your man by Bruno Mars https://youtu.be/qQx7rAeh20E
Blurred lines by Robin Thicke https://youtu.be/On25b7MoyLg
Roar by Katy Perry https://youtu.be/ly9c-rLqMsQ
Royals by Lorde https://youtu.be/zX1r3HUp0D0
Angels brought me here by Guy Sebastian https://youtu.be/Qv1XJt1u84g

The struggle of an aspiring KPop artist. Parents' view and the pressure on Jang Han-Byul to succeed big time https://youtu.be/qgVCdBYd0bk

Undoubtedly talented, intelligent and creative, there is so much pressure for Jang Han-Byul to succeed for his parents and associates. His parents sacrificed their own lives to support their only son's passion for singing. Jang Han-Byul from his videos has been doing everything to decode the formula for stardom. Only destiny will determine if he gets the big break.

For now, I may have deconstructed the motivation for the intensity of his interpretation of struggle songs particularly "Story of My Life."

"Written on these walls are the colors that I can't change
Leave my heart open but it stays right here in its cage

I know that in the morning now
I'll see us in the light upon a hill
Although I am broken, my heart is untamed"

Good luck Han-Byul. Keep track on your professional growth.

Friday, October 25, 2019

Entrance to Themed Village

Vigan is 90 kms. south of Laoag and only 2 hours away by bus. 2 hours turn you to about 5 centuries back to the 16th century through its heritage- themed village.


Heritage has its price. A boutique hotel in Laoag published room rate is over a thousand a night while a modern heritage styled hotel in Vigan is over two thousand.

Common between the two cities is the widespread use of a language that is distinct, rich and with a heritage, Ilokano.

Ilokano binds the people in whatever city, town or region; it is the primary means of communication across income classes. Values like the language are intact. The people remain to be respectful of others, humble, thrifty, industrious and calculatingly aspirational.

The landscape at the centro particularly in Vigan is aesthetically pleasing in daytime more so at nighttime.

Ilocos Norte and Sur. Love its language, values and the landmarks. Conveniently, this experience is only 8 hours away from Manila in landlocked Luzon. There are no entrance fees to pay.

Agyamannak Ilocos. Dios ti agngina kenka.

Thursday, October 24, 2019

Ti Ayat Ti Maysa Nga Ubing

Ti ayat ti maysa nga ubing
Nasamsam-it ngem hasmin
kasla sabong nga apag-ukrad
iti bulan ti abril

Ti ayat ti maysa nga lakay
aglalo no agkabaw
napait, napait,
napait nga makasubkar

This Ilokano folksong resonated in my subconscious since childhood days. Repeatedly heard from the elders, in regional gatherings and on radio sang by the Mabuhay Singers, the melody and the lyrics stuck.

In Vigan this 4rth quarter 2019, I exerted effort to re-learn a language I did not learn to speak fluently and have not spoken in decades.

I wanted to converse in Ilokano to connect.
Directed to "manong, manang, ading," when asking for directions I ask "Ayan na ti  . . .?" When inquiring for a price, "Mano?" Greeting someone, I start with "Naimbag na aldaw." Checking on bus schedule, " Anya oras ti byahe ti Cubao?" Saying thanks, "Dios ti agngina."

The language is sacred to the Ilokanos. Speak their language and you can quickly engage with them. Speak with sincerity and it opens up the possibilities of their heritage.

When the Partas bus enroute to Manila reached Dau terminal, I was surprised to have quickly turned around, "Tya magkano ya pu?" The need to adapt.

Batangas Port, gateway to the islands South of Luzon

Batangas Port is a two-hour bus ride from the Cubao bus hub. (This excludes the North to South EDSA swing.)

Certified as an international port, measures are in place to regulate flow of people and goods. Security protocols are followed. Entering the complex is like entering a military camp though at times security is lax.

Buses from Metro Manila disembark right at the parking area leading to the ticketing area. Likewise, arriving passengers from other islands just walk to the parking area with direct destination via STAR Expressway to Cubao, Pasay, Alabang and at the airport.

Port controls ships, ferries, ROROs, large motorized bancas schedules. Montenegro, 2Go, Ocean Jet, FastCat are among the prominent companies awarded with franchises.

In the advent of advanced communications, one at the very least expects information on departures, arrivals, availability posted real time. Websites are down, cell phone numbers are not updated, Messenger chats are not replied to within acceptable time necessitating one to physically check out just for these at the port. 

Imagine this inconvenience to those on multiple journeys. While other facilities are in place, processes are broken most of the time.
No wonder during peak travel hours as Holy Week, Christmas, elections, long weekends, days with  turbulent weather, local news broadcast bottle necks, congestions, unexpected cancellations and long waits.

My simplest workaround as an intrepid traveler is to establish a local mole stationed at the port to secure information. With confirmed data, that's the only time one moves from Metro Manila to SLEX to conveniently be at the gateway to the islands with a confirmed seat hours not half day or a day before departure. It also spares me of unnecessary travel and outrage.

We almost had it all but . . . We could be rolling in the deep

Which cover of Adele's "Rolling in the Deep" relays the message of  "sana tayo na pero may pagninilo (pagtataksil) ka!"?

We almost had it all! But . . .

https://youtu.be/5NH6aM9YaGI Chinese Opera version
https://youtu.be/x2Oh7STrSIk Leo Moracchioli (metal cover)
https://youtu.be/WZ7xADesLNg Vance Joy (acoustic)
https://youtu.be/nYqbOW4ka8k Han Byul (K Pop Australian)

And the original live from Adele
https://youtu.be/Mi2cURoOAYY at the Royal Albert Hall

Enjoy























Tuesday, September 03, 2019

Poetry in Music Reinterpreted in a Cover Song: YouTube Concert

Poetry in Music Reinterpreted in a Cover Song

I am awed by the vocal range, control, versatility, phrasing, interpretation and choice of songs with memorable musicality and well written and crafted poetry of a young Australian-Korean (ex-KPop) singer Jang Han-Byul.

I discovered him on YouTube. From the over 50 videos, I am sharing 5 of my choices demonstrating his versatility and faithfulness to the theme.

Through voice and projection, he dramatizes the pain of separation in covering Adele's "Someone like you" sometimes it lasts in love and sometimes it hurts instead. For me it's not over . . . " https://youtu.be/dr8iyogSxYY

Pain of rejection in Bruno Mar's "Grenade" where "I would die for you but you wouldn't do the same."  https://youtu.be/jIeaneOc-jQ

A gloomy "Story of my life"  by One Direction. "My heart is unbroken but still untamed."  https://youtu.be/CdknvJM-Z6c

Struggling with "Demons" inside interpreting Imagine Dragons "When you feel the heat, just look into my eyes. It's where the demons hide. Don't get too close, it's dark inside" https://youtu.be/PgA136Vu-YI

And the hopeful and my favorite "Counting Stars" of One Republic where he shows singing prowess interpreting the melody of these lines "Old but not that old, young but not that bold," "I feel something so right by doing the wrong things, I feel something so wrong by doing the right things." "Everything that kills me makes me feel alive." Hope comes in the line "no more counting dollars, we'll be counting stars." https://youtu.be/-o5x0SiyegQ

Jan Han-Byul is a talented young artist who conveys his music through his voice though covers but expressed well, very well. He sings in English, French, Korean, Japanese. Currently, he is wowing audiences in Malaysia and India.

Listen to his interpretation to my initial selection of familiar songs. (Studio recordings best appreciated on Smart TV with a sound bar)

To complete my playlist:
Treasure by Bruno Mars https://youtu.be/zmsKikzG2Ns
Just the way you are by Bruno Mars https://youtu.be/3-HR2cLVFjc
Versace on the wall by Bruno Mars https://youtu.be/n-v9H-Tr-DE
When I was your man by Bruno Mars https://youtu.be/qQx7rAeh20E
Blurred lines by Robin Thicke https://youtu.be/On25b7MoyLg
Roar by Katy Perry https://youtu.be/ly9c-rLqMsQ
Angels brought me here by Guy Sebastian https://youtu.be/Qv1XJt1u84g

The struggle of an aspiring KPop artist. Parents' view and the pressure on Jang Hanbyul https://youtu.be/qgVCdBYd0bk

Undoubtedly talented, intelligent and creative, there is so much pressure for Jang Hanybrul to succeed for his parents and associates. His parents sacrificed their own lives to support their only son's passion for singing. Jang Hanbyul from his videos has been doing everything to decode the formula for stardom. Only destiny will determine if he gets the big break.

For now, I may have deconstructed the motivation for the intensity of his interpretation of struggle songs particularly Story of My Life.

"Written on these walls are the colors that I can't change
Leave my heart open but it stays right here in its cage

I know that in the morning now
I'll see us in the light upon a hill
Although I am broken, my heart is untamed"

Good luck Hanbyul. Keep track on your professional growth.

Saturday, August 31, 2019

Hosting for a Severed Co-Worker

A tambayan was the venue for a co-workers’ social gathering who has recently received a modest severance pay.

Usually, separated employees upon receiving compensation disappear for good to cut off discretely and quickly. Not the consultant on septage haulage. He willingly sponsored social gatherings for colleagues for the chance to reminisce the good and the challenging times.

Change management practitioners put importance to a symbolic closing which in this case is a drinking binge.

Psychologically, a deliberate gathering signals a closure to the past paving way for a transition to a new tomorrow. Much like celebrating a victory with a party to share success and to reinforce a winning mindset, a gathering to mark a severance neutralizes the negative association with the change.

The night was fun-filled attended by a handful of co-workers. Wine and tapas were served. Concerts transmitted from online YouTube set the vibrant mood on that rainy evening. With minimal discussion on work, conversations were mainly on music, singers and concerts.

Night closed thanking the sponsor for the generosity and our appreciation for the shared resources hoping that the next one will be a victory and not on goodbyes.

Thursday, August 29, 2019

Social Work and Act of Kindness

Today I did social work for a construction worker who is an elementary graduate secure a valid government ID.

His roots are in San Jose Occidental Mindoro and has been working for about 5 years without an ID except for an expired postal ID and an NBI clearance. There was a major hitch though, he is an illegitimate child and been using his unknown fathers' surname since then.

The worker who asked for my help while we were on our way to NSO's East Venue office (as we were both mistaken that their office was still in Pureza) laid down his situation: no ID has bothered him since 5 years ago, he took a leave today to see what can be done, he is lost as to the processes, he has an NSO certified birth certificate, he has SSS, Philhealth, PAGIBIG accounts but does not have the membership numbers, he dreads traveling to San Jose without a clear and guaranteed plan.

5 years ago, he had his birth certificate corrected at the City Registrar in San Jose so he can present the required document at the SSS office in Guadelupe. The frontliner then found his document defective which disillussioned him. Since then he has not acted on getting the correct advice until now.

His lack of a valid ID was a deterrent for him to enrol in advanced vocational certification courses, send money, apply for a loan, travel by boat, exercise suffrage, drive his company issued motorcycle and open a bank account.

He was not aware that he asked a process mapping expert for both private and government bureaucratic firms willing to help the marginalized welcoming trouble shooting and problem solving.
I presented the necessary and important steps and coached him on how to face the government frontliners. He agreed.

From Pureza, we went to SSS East Avenue, NBI Center in QC Hall and government centers in Ali Mall. From 11AM to about 6PM, the cross he was carrying for about 5 years was finally taken out.
He was pleased to see validated that his company has been religiously remitting SSS, Philhealth and PAGIBIG contributions. Relieved that his official name can be corrected. And with IDs for processing, they can vouch now for his identity.

I was fulfilled, I was able to help him foregoing momentarily my own agenda. I was touched when he told me that when he gets his Php 536.00 minimum wage pay, he will buy me lunch at Jollibee someday.

Kindness and service orientation of civil servants made the accomplishments possible: the E-online staff at SSS who diagnosed the situation, the respectful lady at the Amendment counter who referred him to the proper authorities, the lawyer who patiently listened to formulate the salaysay, the baggage staff at QC library who checked if late processing can be accommodated, the OJT staff who operated the online registration as the applicant was not computer literate, the PAGIBIG staff who drew the necessary steps,  the PhilHealth lady who recognized the mutilated, expired NBI clearance as as ID resulting in the issuance of a PhilHealth green ID, the LTO staff who was closing the steel gate yet answered all queries on the steps the applicant needed to go through.

Grabbed from Phil Star
This Wednesday afternoon, it was like the gates opened for the good angels to guide the hardworking and industrious applicant who can now dream of raising his family now that the biggest obstacle to move on, a valid ID with his corrected name has been addressed. "Ang daming naayos sir ng kalahating araw dahil sa iyo na sa tantsa ko, ilang buwan ko magagawa." "Nakatulong lang" was my modest reply.

This chance encounter provided me an opportunity to test servant leadership. I was more than pleased that even outside of a corporate structure, I was able to.

Sunday, August 25, 2019

Welcome to your Life


Friends visit your hub. They say openly what they like and what else they want to do to it.

One D.I.Y. hobbyist brought his power tools to install organizers. One sculptor/ engineer transformed whatever he spotted as discards into a multi-media art work. The kitchen was refurnished with more cooking equipment to be more practical.

Additional used outdoors and kitchen accessories were donated to improve functionality. Sound system was calibrated for enhanced sounds. Online SMART TV was connected to link the outdoors with YouTube concerts.

Eventually, the mancave meant to be just a recluse from day-to-day chores turned into a social hub for professionals and students operating and studying within the vicinity.

Provisions for food and drinks were maintained for the unannounced visits, whether on sunny or rainy days, day or night even up to early mornings.

Guests strike conversations. Frustrated chefs cook up hot meals. Compulsive for cleanliness frequenters clear the tables, sort and dispose garbage and manually dish wash the plates and glasses. Regardless of contributed functions, all tell their stores. All also stay for the company and the positive experience of the place and the gathering.

The recent gathering closed with BBC Concert Tears for Fears’ 1985 pop song “Welcome to your life!” What perhaps is a more appropriate closing is Jim Reeves’ 1963 ballad "Welcome to my World!” . . . won't you come on in/ miracles I guess still happen/ now and then step into my heart/ leave your cares behind/ welcome to my world built with you in mind

It is no longer mine as there are now shared holders. Welcome to my world with you in mind. Leave your cares behind.  Tuloy po kayo. Magdala rin ng toka!

Wednesday, August 14, 2019

Monday, August 12, 2019

Loss as Themes for Cinemalaya 2019 Shorts A and B

Shorts dealt with loss. What were lost in the themes of #Cinemalaya2019 A and B? How did the filmaker develop the theme?

#SaAmongAgwat-Brother
#KontroladoNiGirlyAngBuhayNiya-Dignity
#HeleNgMaharlika-Family and Identity
#DisconnectionNotice-Brotherhood
#WagMoAkongKausapin-Fatherhood
#TheShoemaker-Memories
#SaGabingTangingLiwanagAyPaniniwala-Life and Fatherhood
#Tembong-Mother and Heritage
#HeistSchool-Honor
#Gatilyo-Normalcy and Self

Which story was executed well as a film? My Matrix in assessing the Shorts: Story, Execution, Social Relevance, Ending, New Insight, Local, Universality, Impact


Photo from My Movie  World

Friday, August 09, 2019

Bonding Pain Child Struggle Derailment Loss Cinemalaya2019

The start of the movie cinema festival #cinemalaya2019, my favourite festival. Entries narrate a Filipino story said differently. Like a Shakespearian play, it calls for patience as it takes time to establish the characters and the situation story-wise and technically. When the story unfolds and you get into the groove, you are engaged and hooked until it jolts and hurts you.  The hurt lingers as it is a relatable pinoy story dramatising a universal pain of being human. You move on only when you sit for the next screening.

Children of the River- the joy of authentic children's friendship growing up in a small river side community whose bonding is a continuing influence of their parent's solidarity. What binds them together and how will face the future are reinforced with a tragedy all of them faced. Enviable to be a member of their circle

Bell Douleur, A Beautiful Pain- the difficulty of letting go of objects, memories and dedicated romantic relationship. Dramatizes in a slick execution the thrill, pleasure and the accompanying pain of a casual exclusive relationship. Presents self-love as the trigger to move on. Mylene Dizon essays sensitively well the struggle and the realisations.

Ani The Harvest - the struggle of an orphan who in the final separation moments with the father and eventually the mother was seeded with mindset and power in coping. Set in the future in Philippine farm setting the sci-fi genre follows the boy's development until he is empowered after going through various rough and tough tests under the care of his grandfather. Story is told in tales, animation in a sci fi setting with a robot as a character in a remote farmland

F#*@ Bois- raises a moral question who committed the greater crime? Who is the victim? A well crafted movie on the fun, thrill, aspiration and adventures of appealing young males. Two fun loving good looking boys joining pageants who love what they do projecting well on social media. One with a strong showbiz aspiration (which may or may not happen) and the other just chilling out.  Not until there was a perceived derailer to their celebrity-like life. Fun and the contemporary use of social media are effortlessly executed at the start effectively establishing their characters. Ending in tragedy, movie poses a moral question on who committed the deadlier crime. Great performance by the two newbie leads and the veteran actor. While story has been told before, it is the friendship of the two seen on social media and in their shared scheme that injects a new perspective

#BelleDouleur #Fuccbois #ChildrenOfTheRiver #AniTheHarvest #edwardmovie #johndenvertrending

John Denver Trending- a moment of indiscretion, a lifetime of regret. A high schooler in a small town blamed for the loss of an iPad is attacked on social media and pre judged until the pain and the shame have become unbearable. A boy with a strength of character, tenacity to face pressure, a loving son to a mother and with intregity did not get any help to support him during his weakest moment resulted in a tragic ultimate surrender. Drained, saddened, angered that not one of us is able to help him.

Each time I see Jansen’s face on Twitter, Facebook, YouTube, it triggers sadness thinking of the scene he as John Denver cried alone with cloth covering his eyes affected by the pain and perhaps shame his mother is going through.
Jansen’s face now whether smiling or casual, is marked with despair and helplessness of a victim.




Edward- the public hospital in its current
sorry state as Edward's stage as a young adult in discovering thrill, joy, attention, appreciation, love, friendship disillusionment, pain and loss. As he matures, he gradually is shocked by the reality of a harsh life

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Why should we watch #Edwardmovie a cinemalaya full length movie? This was asked from actor Elijah Canlas @elijahcanlas_ in an interview at CNN Philippines. First he mentions about the reality of the health care system in the Philippines, then he talks about other messages of the film.

The public hospital is a backdrop to the greater message the movie wishes to convey. It is about a human being.

Films mirror the complexity of what man is. It dramatizes in sounds and sights the sensual and visceral excitement of what he is. Hospital setting is a backdrop to the inner struggle Edward is going through with his interaction with ailing father, half-brother, nurse Daisy, vendor, new friend Agnes, friend and partner Renz. Like a normal playful kid, Edward is imperfect; he is mischievous, restless, responsible, a minor with personal angst and laziness. Edward expedites the realization that beyond the temporal and of what he is, he has a greater mission to perform and to experience. To discover that, in the real world can be a painful process. Edward unfolds that seamlessly, lightly yet pokes at you to inspect deeper about yourself.

It’s a movie that resonates with anyone going through self-searching in life. That to me is a compelling reason we should watch Edward.

Thursday, August 08, 2019

Pinanindigan ang Iskedul

The storm rage that was contained

The bus with 49 seater only had 3 passengers on the way back and the company honored its schedule







Monday, August 05, 2019

Sudden Meets

Drix and Henrik, one a recent Metallurgical Engineering graduate preparing for his board, another a graduating Materials Engineering student took a risk to attend an unscheduled, out of the blue social event in the vicinity of their campus. Time could have been spent resting after a board review or chilling out with dorm mates on a rainy Friday night. One is an introvert who recharges by isolating himself; the other is an extrovert who draws more energy engaging in active conversations.


They were not drawn to the place because they were required to as students but simply out of curiosity perhaps not expecting anything but to discover something new in a company of working and retired professionals whose only distinct commonality is sharing the same campus as theirs but on different eras.

While they can claim they learned about wine, wine drinking, meats and music in that marathon social gathering, we too learned from them.

That failing several classes may now be a norm. That school life is really not all ups as there are down moments too. That they have a deep appreciation for history and music, both Asian and the world.
Millennials can be active listeners even outside of their groups. They can appreciate good food and wine and the factual support behind them. They have patience. And they can relate with seniors on an equal footing.

Both have expressed different paths post college. One will pursue a masteral degree after taking and passing the board, the other to get employed. We wish them the best for the endeavors they chose to pursue.

Drix only dragged Henrik to the gathering initially with hesitancy. In the about 10 hours of social exchanges, Henrik must have thanked Drix 7 times.

Leaving the place not knowing if ever we will meet again, the only message we leave is, to take risk. As Paulo Coelho wrote, “we will only understand the miracle of life when we allow the unexpected to happen.

Thursday, August 01, 2019

Dealing with change. Minsan (dating sa iyo, nawala o nadagdagan)

Change. We face it regularly and more frequently now at all levels, professionally, governance, personally.


I recall while working for the leading beverage company the various changes that we face monthly, quarterly and the major ones annually. Politically, we face drastic changes daily.  We get devastated on a personal level with loss of friends, loved ones, properties, artifacts, pets or even gadgets.

Without grit, we get disillusioned and desperate. What helped in coping with change was the understanding and acknowledgement of Kurt Lewin’s change model.


Kurt Lewin’s model involves three steps: Unfreezing, Changing and Refreezing . . .  "The process of change entails creating the perception that a change is needed, then moving toward the new, desired level of behavior and finally, solidifying that new behavior as the norm."

Paraphrasing managing change, help let go of the past and prepare for the future. What will change? What will remain the same? What is the new beginning?


Some proven steps for me which have been helpful in transitioning to change: Prepare for the change. Acknowledge change openly. Compensate for the loss. Take a part of the old. Say info over and over. Elaborate on the ending. Mark endings-show how it ensures continuity. Treat the past with respect.

"Iba ang ang mga bossing ngayon. Mababawasan na/Madaragdagan na . . . Nandoon pa rin ang . . . Nandito pa rin tayo. Pero malamang hanggang sa katapusan na lang. Kita kita na lang tayo." "Bilog ang bola." Winter, spring, sumner and fall. When a door is closed, another one opens."

Ely Buendia’s “Minsan” translates the dynamics well in a song particularly in treating the past with respect:

“Minsan tayo ay naging tunay na magkaibigan
minsan ay hindi ko na alam ang nangyayari kahit na anong gawin lahat ng bagay ay merong hangganan
ngunit ngayon tayo ay nilimot ng kahapon di na mapipilitang buhayin ang ating pinagsamahan
ngunit kung sakaling mapadaan baka ikaw ay aking tawagan
dahil minsan tayo ay naging tunay na magkaibigan

Changes are evidently happening progressively now. Unfreeze (picture the ending). Change (which is inevitable). Refreeze (move on with a new beginning).